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Maxwell is a Joy-Of-Life-Coach
Are You Ready to Begin?
Get the "Joy Attitude!" You CAN DO IT! Find out more ...
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Sure, Not Everything is Easy. "Really
tough" can be an understatement, we know it, right?
However, in history and currently, too, we can find people whose
pains and troubles are short.
Their Joys are Enduring. How to they do it? Can you
do it? Shall we find out???
Is this psychotherapy? Although
every face-to-face meeting can include the skills and experiences found in
psychotherapy.
"Joy Attitude" is a philosophy and its core methods are Joy, Love,
Laughter, Rhythm, Music-Mirth, and Strategy!
Let's look further ...
Have a Great Relationship with Yourself!
[THIS CAN HELP WITH ALL OF YOUR RELATIONSHIPS!!]
Jackie Mason, world-famous comedian-philosopher ["The
World According to Me"] said,
"If I want to have a conversation with an intelligent person, I talk to
myself."
He advises, too. "I never raise topics that I am not interested
in."
"I like my sense of humor." He begins by defining a topic clearly and
audaciously, and then laughs about it.
He laughs about how complex are life's choices, given our very human nature, and
the choices we make.
And, we do make our choices, don't we? Some good, some bad, but always the best
we could at that time.
What do you think? Lets talk about this!!!
What about my "big limitations"?
This is no joke. Just the size is exaggerated. Either the size
of our expectations, or the size of our limitations.
We all have our attributes! Our experiences! Our abilities! And, our
limitations, real, or just perceived. And we have our ambitions and our goals.
Life is full of surprises, not always joyous. We can wish that we turn
every pain into a joy!
THIS IS MORE OFTEN POSSIBLE THAN YOU MAY THINK IT IS!
"Wish" is the key word, correct? Every wish can
be the seed of a joyous experience. ITS TRUE.
Even our limitations, surprisingly - very surprisingly, often - can generate
joys that we never did expect.
Even the resolving of a tragedy, disappointment, or loss, CAN RELEASE US
TO JOYS WE NEVER EXPECTED.
What about my "difficult experiences"?
This is often challenging, because in these situations the
joy, or potential joy, of this moment can be a challenge to access.
CONTEMPLATING JOY IN RELATIONSHIP TO SUCH EXPERIENCES CAN SEEM INCONCEIVABLE.
Yet, you will agree, joy, IF IT CAN BE FOUND, may be your best choice,
both for you, and for the joy that you can bring others.
But the mystery is, how CAN TO FIND CHOICE POINTS; are there REALLY CHOICE
POINTS, TRULY? Not immediately evident, yet ...
We don't know what we will find when we visit these
"choice points", with the question, "Is there really
room for joy!
Have a Great Relationship with Others!
With everybody? I don't think so. But what is possible?
You are interesting to many others! Know that in advance.
Also, your interest in others is of value to them. Everybody? I don't
think so. But that is fine, because when your platter is full,
this is enough, right? Even your hunger for relationship is an asset.
Even your fear of relationship is an asset. How
can that be? Because you understand, in those
hungers and fears, what it means to be human; and this
is the basis of relationship.
Who might the person be?
* Family Member * Friend, Mate, Lover * Boss, Team-Mate, Board-Member *
If "alliance", "coalition", "functional
partnership", "friendship", even "love" is what you
want
A VERY SMALL CHANGE IS USUALLY WHERE TO START, because small changes can start
miracles!
How is this possible?
PLASTICITY is a feature of all HUMAN BRAIN. This is the astonishing feature when
ACCUMULATION OF NEARLY IMPERCEPTIBLE CHANGES CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE
Sometimes changes can happen in a flash! "Wow!" Can
you imagine asking yourself,
CAN THIS GREAT CHANGE REALLY BE HAPPENING NOW? And it is happening!
WHEN this happens to us, our biggest challenge - you will agree? - is to keep it
happening, by
STABILIZING THIS GREAT CHANGE AND KEEPING IT! Make
sense?
Make Joy-of-Life Your Goal!
We already know how to make familiar situations have an
unwanted outcome.
Don't we? The expectation of the same unwanted outcome makes it very likely
that it will disappoint, again, sadly. True? But can you decide that you are
determined to try
for a different outcome, filled with an attitude that you never manifested
before, together with a way of going about it
that you never did before; how about that? Let's
talk about how this works, and let's see where, when,
and how this can apply to you. Let's find out it this is "all talk",
of IS IT REAL?!!!
Joy-of-Life your Way-of-Life
Would you consider it?
A Joy-Of-Life-Coach may be able to help you "re-form"
your Relationship Goals and Strategies
RE-FORMING YOUR RELATIONSHIP GOALS CAN MAKE THEM ACHIEVABLE AND SATISFYING,
Re-forming your relationship goals takes into account:
WHAT YOU WANT DO OR RECEIVE - This is intention, hope, excitement.
UNDERSTANDING THAT EXPERIENCES ARE MORE IMPORTANT THAN THINGS.
WHAT OTHERS ARE CAPABLE OF GIVING AND RECEIVING - This is evaluation of current
situation: self, other, context.
THE ELEMENTS OF THE CONTEXT THAT FAVOR THIS EXCHANGE - These are strengths and
possible changes.
HOW YOU CAN CREATE OPTIMAL CONDITIONS- This is strategy.
Examples - read the letters - WHICH OF THESE
SITUATIONS
RESEMBLE YOUR SITUATION? OR ... ?
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Couple #2
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WANT A BETTER RELATIONSHIP WITH
* YOURSELF? Filled with Joy more of the time ...
* FAMILY/FRIEND? Fill your relationships with more joy.
* MATE/DATE/FIANCÉ(E)/WIFE/LOVER/ROOM-MATE? Love and joy, get more of it!
* COLLEAGUE/BUSINESS ASSOCIATE/BOSS/STAFF? Work with trust and caring. It can be
done!
* TEAM-MATE(S)/ORGANIZATION/BOARD? Everybody feels better when the context is
joyous!
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Joy-Of-Life Coach Ray Maxwell
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Questions:
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Know anybody with Cluster Migraine Headaches?
Can Ray teach me Transactional Analysis?
Can I change somebody else?
Do it help if I believe in God?
Are you always joyous? How can you do it?
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Conflict in marriage?
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First-rate Toronto Area psychotherapists.
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Bruce Stiles is a psychotherapist and couples counsellor in Guelph/Kitchener
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Each of these experienced established Ontario psychotherapist/counselors,
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how to build relationship, balance, and integrity. Contact these fine therapists
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