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Get the "Joy Attitude!" You CAN DO IT! Let's find out more ...
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of smiling faces and exploding fireworks - see soon!
Ray's Happy Face
Sure, Not Everything is Easy. "Really
tough" can be an understatement, we know it, right?
However, in history and currently, too, we can find people whose
pains and troubles are short.
Their Joys are Enduring. How to they do it? Can you
do it? Shall we find out???
Is this psychotherapy? Although
every
face-to-face meeting can include the skills and experiences found in
psychotherapy.
"Joy Attitude" is a philosophy and its core methods are Joy, Love, Laughter,
Rhythm, Music-Mirth, and Strategy!
Let's look further ...
Have a Great Relationship with Yourself!
Jackie Mason, the famous comedian-philosopher ["The World
According to Me"] said,
"If I want to have a conversation with an intelligent person, I talk to
myself."
He advises, too. "I never raise topics that I am not interested
in."
"I like my sense of humor." His style is to begin by defining a topic
clearly and audaciously, and then laugh about it.
He appears to be laughing about how complex are life's choices, given our very
human nature, and the choices we make.
And, we do make our choices, don't we? Some good, some bad, but always the best
we could at that time.
What do you think? Lets talk about
this!!!
What about my "big limitations"?
This is no joke. Just the size is exaggerated. Either the size
of our expectations, or the size of our limitations.
We all our attributes! Our experiences! Our abilities! And, our limitations,
real, or just perceived. And we have our ambitions.
Life is full of surprises, not always
joyous. We can wish
that we turn every pain into a joy!
THIS IS MORE OFTEN POSSIBLE THAN YOU MAY THINK IT IS!
"Wish" is the key word, correct? Every wish can be the seed of a
joyous experience. ITS TRUE.
Even our
limitations, surprisingly - very surprisingly, often - can generate joys that we never did expect.
Even the resolving of a tragedy,
disappointment, or loss, CAN RELEASE US TO JOYS WE NEVER EXPECTED.
What about my "difficult experiences"?
This is often challenge, because in these situations the joy, or potential joy, of
this moment can be a challenge to access.
CONTEMPLATING JOY IN RELATIONSHIP TO SUCH EXPERIENCES CAN SEEM INCONCEIVABLE.
Yet, you will agree, joy, IF IT CAN BE FOUND, may be your best choice, both for you, and for the joy
that you can bring others.
We don't know what we will find when we visit these "choice points",
with the question, "Is there really is
room for joy!
Have a Great Relationship with Others!
With everybody? I don't think so. But is more possible?
COULD BE!
Who might the person be?
* Family Member * Friend, Mate, Lover * Boss, Team-Mate, Board-Member *
If "alliance", "coalition", "functional
partnership", "friendship", even "love" is what you want
A VERY SMALL CHANGE IS USUALLY WHERE TO START, because small changes can start
miracles!
How is this possible?
PLASTICITY is a feature of all HUMAN BRAIN. This is the astonishing feature
when
ACCUMULATION OF NEARLY IMPERCEPTIBLE CHANGES CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE
Sometimes changes can happen in a flash! "Wow!" Can you imagine
asking yourself,
CAN THIS GREAT CHANGE REALLY BE HAPPENING NOW? And it is happening!
WHEN this happens to us, our biggest challenge - you will agree? - is to keep it
happening, by
STABILIZING THIS GREAT CHANGE AND KEEPING IT! Make sense?
Make Joy-of-Life Your Goal!
We already know how to make familiar situations have an
unwanted outcome.
Don't we? The expectation that the same unwanted outcome makes it very likely
that is will. Do you know what can happen if you decide to try for a different
outcome,
filled with an attitude that you never manifested before, together with a way of
going about it
that you never did before? Let's talk about how this works, and let's see where,
when,
and how this can apply to you. Let's find out it this is "all talk",
of IS IT REAL?!!!
Joy-of-Life your Way-of-Life
Would you consider it?
A Joy-Of-Life-Coach may be able to help you "re-form" your
Relationship Goals and Strategies
RE-FORMING YOUR RELATIONSHIP GOALS CAN MAKE THEM ACHIEVABLE AND SATISFYING,
Re-forming your relationship goals takes into account
WHAT YOU WANT DO OR RECEIVE - This is intention, hope, excitement.
WHAT OTHERS ARE CAPABLE GIVING AND RECEIVE - This is evaluation of current
situation: self, other, context.
THE ELEMENTS OF THE CONTEXT THAT FAVOR THIS EXCHANGE - These are strengths and
possible changes.
HOW YOU CAN CREATE OPTIMAL CONDITIONS- This is strategy.
Examples - could one of these situations be
yours
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