Ray Maxwell is a Joy-Of-Life-Coach
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Get the "Joy Attitude!" You CAN DO IT! Let's find out more ...

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Ray's Happy Face

Sure, Not Everything is Easy. "Really tough" can be an understatement, we know it, right?
However,  in history and currently, too, we can find people whose pains and troubles are short. 
Their Joys are Enduring. How to they do it? Can you do it? Shall we find out???

Is this psychotherapy? Although every face-to-face meeting can include the skills and experiences found in psychotherapy.
"Joy Attitude" is a philosophy and its core methods are Joy, Love, Laughter, Rhythm, Music-Mirth, and Strategy!
Let's look further ... 

Have a Great Relationship with Yourself!

Jackie Mason, the famous comedian-philosopher ["The World According to Me"] said,
"If I want to have a conversation with an intelligent person, I talk to myself."
He advises, too. "I never raise topics that I am not interested in."
"I like my sense of humor." His style is to begin by defining a topic clearly and audaciously, and then laugh about it.
He appears to be laughing about how complex are life's choices, given our very human nature, and the choices we make.
And, we do make our choices, don't we? Some good, some bad, but always the best we could at that time.
What do you think? Lets talk about this!!!

What about my "big limitations"?

This is no joke. Just the size is exaggerated. Either the size of our expectations, or the size of our limitations.
We all our attributes! Our experiences! Our abilities! And, our limitations, real, or just perceived. And we have our ambitions. 
Life is full of surprises, not always joyous. We can wish that we turn every pain into a joy
THIS IS MORE OFTEN POSSIBLE THAN YOU MAY THINK IT IS!
"Wish" is the key word, correct? Every wish can be the seed of a joyous experience. ITS TRUE.
Even our limitations, surprisingly - very surprisingly, often - can generate joys that we never did expect. 
Even the resolving of a tragedy, disappointment, or loss, CAN RELEASE US TO JOYS WE NEVER EXPECTED.

What about my "difficult experiences"?

This is often challenge, because in these situations the joy, or potential joy, of this moment can be a challenge to access.
CONTEMPLATING JOY IN RELATIONSHIP TO SUCH EXPERIENCES CAN SEEM INCONCEIVABLE.
Yet, you will agree, joy, IF IT CAN BE FOUND,  may be your best choice, both for you, and for the joy that you can bring others.
We don't know what we will find when we visit these "choice points", with the question, "Is there really is room for joy!

Have a Great Relationship with Others!

With everybody? I don't think so. But is more possible? COULD BE!
Who might the person be? 
* Family Member * Friend, Mate, Lover * Boss, Team-Mate, Board-Member *
If "alliance", "coalition", "functional partnership", "friendship", even "love" is what you want 
A VERY SMALL CHANGE IS USUALLY WHERE TO START, because small changes can start miracles!
How is this possible?
PLASTICITY is a feature of all HUMAN BRAIN. This is the astonishing feature when
ACCUMULATION OF NEARLY IMPERCEPTIBLE CHANGES CAN CHANGE YOUR LIFE
Sometimes changes can happen in a flash! "Wow!" Can you imagine asking yourself, 
CAN THIS GREAT CHANGE REALLY BE HAPPENING NOW? And it is happening!
WHEN this happens to us, our biggest challenge - you will agree? - is to keep it happening, by
STABILIZING THIS GREAT CHANGE AND KEEPING IT! Make sense?

Make Joy-of-Life Your Goal!

We already know how to make familiar situations have an unwanted outcome.
Don't we? The expectation that the same unwanted outcome makes it very likely
that is will. Do you know what can happen if you decide to try for a different outcome,
filled with an attitude that you never manifested before, together with a way of going about it
that you never did before? Let's talk about how this works, and let's see where, when,
and how this can apply to you. Let's find out it this is "all talk", of  IS IT REAL?!!!

 

 Joy-of-Life your Way-of-Life
Would you consider it? 

 

A Joy-Of-Life-Coach may be able to help you "re-form" your Relationship Goals and Strategies
RE-FORMING YOUR RELATIONSHIP GOALS CAN MAKE THEM ACHIEVABLE AND SATISFYING,
Re-forming your relationship goals takes into account 
WHAT YOU WANT DO OR RECEIVE - This is intention, hope, excitement.
WHAT OTHERS ARE CAPABLE GIVING AND RECEIVE - This is evaluation of current situation: self, other, context.
THE ELEMENTS OF THE CONTEXT THAT FAVOR THIS EXCHANGE - These are strengths and possible changes.
HOW YOU CAN CREATE OPTIMAL CONDITIONS- This is strategy.

Examples - could one of these situations be yours

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